Changing Faces

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Intra State Relationship

He lives on the other side of town...
She works on the other side of his workplace...
They both hang on to phone calls, e-mails and text messages...
She doesn't get suprises during the week...
He cant call her up as led by his thoughts for dinner...
She travels for 3hrs before getting to his place due to distance and traffic...
He spends few hours with her before driving her home...
They both wait for another week before seeing, touching, feeling and kissing each other...
She wants to see him often...
He needs to watch her grow to love him...
The strain of distance is tearing them apart...
They are both unhappy...
How do you cope with intra state relationship?

11 comments:

Toochi said...

i am soooo first:)

Toochi said...

interstate relationships shouldn't be too difficult to cope with. there's the chance for the couple to see....unlike a few people that opt for international relationships, that's not a bad thing...but i think it has to do with both couples and their ability to take things one step at a time until the desired time approaches.
p.s
i feel i just typed some meaningless stuff:)

James Tubman said...

you think that is something

try living a thousand miles away

you have to find something that gives you fulfillment outside of the relationship

not sex with another but work, hobbies, voluteering etc.

something that is harmless and doesn't hurt your wallet

also read my post on the #1 problem in relatioships

All-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalo said...

that is so sad, and i feel him

James Tubman said...

oh my god you are so fine

damn lol

Unknown said...

wjupczInterstate (long distance) relationships..
Be prepared for lots of phone sex..and phone bills..!!!

tobenna said...

UPDATE!

Afrobabe said...

you decided to abandon us abi???

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Aunty, I have been thinking about you and so thought to stop by. Can't believe you haven't updated since February. Everything okay?

About long distance relationships (not quite long in this case), patience is sometimes needed.

I hope you and yours are well.

ayoola said...

everytime i look in your eyes and i say to myslef...if anyone shouldn't be happy, that shouldntbe you. you are such a lovely woman. beautifully crafted. i want you to be happy and i am determined to see that happen. if its the last thing i do. my dear, you will be happy. keep fingers crossed...remember?

Don said...

oh, i thought but kinda knew u weren't back blogging. i came anyway, and at least i got a chance to view ur pics and remember ur pretty smile again.

hope u r good and inspired....regardless